When Motivation Leaves….

F*$& IT ALL!

It’s difficult to stay motivated. I know it is for me. Sometimes I want to give up on all of my dreams. Sometimes I want to say to hell with this and go back to my regular job. Sometimes I want to stop everything and sit in my dark room away from the world.


Sometimes you don’t see the growth and that gets discouraging. You don’t see how far you’ve come or how far you can go. You only see that you aren’t where you want to be.

It makes it hard to chase that dream you always wanted. It makes it hard to be that person you always wanted to be. You see other people and think, Damn they sure do have their shit together and wish and hope to be like them.


I wish I could be like those people. I mean who doesn’t want to have their shit together? Who doesn’t want to get up in the morning and know exactly why they are on this earth and DO that live that exact reason out?

Well, I am human just like the rest of you so I have these feelings day in and day out. HOWEVER, If my memory serves me correctly, as soon as you want to give up, you strike gold SO you have to keep pushing. FAILURE is only FAILURE when you give up. Not because you tried. It is by our own perception that we think we will never make it. However, reality could be dealing a different set of cards. The future may look bleak to you right now but something totally better could be in store. So, I encourage you to follow that spark, KEEP AT IT. It is going to lead to amazing things. It is going to lead to victory. Your heart is pulling you towards where you need to be. Continue to follow it. Continue to trust in yourself.

I wonder why people trust in other people without question but yet won’t trust in themselves? Like a job. A salary. A boss.

What if you knew you could do it? That in 1 year all of your efforts would pay off? How would you treat it? We have more control over ourselves and our outcomes more than we do job stability.

If we keep being persistent in what we do…it is going to crack! We are going to make it to where we want to be.

  • We never heard the story about the guy who gave up on their dreams and lived happily ever after.
  • Or we never heard the story about the girl who stopped chasing her passion and it just magically worked out.

I don’t know about you but I don’t think these stories exist.


The point is to trust in yourself. Trust that it will all work out because it does. Every great you hear about IS great because they refused to give up. You don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. So just KEEP GOING. KEEP GOING.

Those silly imperfections make you…..you. 🙂

-xoxo Candice

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